My First Trip to Town
For the first time, I left the compound in the backseat of a
short yellow cab where I sat with my head pressing against the roof. It was
mid-morning and the sky was ominously dark with sparse rain drops on the
ground. My roommate Jake and I ventured into the city of Monastir with hopes of
having our own court for practice. As we approached the town, we passed
alongside a series of large vacation homes overlooking the Mediterranean up on
a cliff. The only difference between this area and Newport Beach, CA was the chaos
of the street we drove on. Garbage, motorcyclists, bicyclists, and pedestrians aimlessly
roamed and avoided the automobile traffic. As we approached the city, the
buildings became denser with additional traffic and garbage. When we arrived at
the tennis club for our practice it immediately started raining, dissolving any
hope for a productive tennis session. Slightly discouraged, we asked our taxi
driver to pick us up in an hour in hopes of getting into the neighboring
stadium for a workout. We trekked around the tennis club onto the streets to
the stadium entrance with our tennis bags in the light rain. One gate after the
next was locked, however once we found the main entrance we followed a series
of side doors ajar to get into the facility. The unmanicured grounds of the
soccer stadium appeared abandoned at first but once we made it under the
stadium, we saw a youth soccer practice session on the outside practice fields.
Jake and I mutually agreed to run half of the stadium if we could access the
bleachers. Sure enough, we were able to find our way onto turf where we went
for a warmup lap before getting into our workout.
Upon our departure from the tennis club, we drove through
the heart of Monastir to a café for a coffee as an excuse to hang out for a few
more minutes in the city. On the drive through downtown, I noticed a pattern of
unfinished buildings throughout the city. In Tunisia apparently, if your
property is under construction, you are not required to pay taxes until the
property is finished. This has resulted in nearly every residential property being
kept with at least one room under construction indefinitely.
Our taxi driver Samir mentioned that Monastir leaned politically
left in comparison to the rest of Tunisia, meaning that more women are employed,
French was the dominant language, and there is less distain towards the gay
community. Women are predominately in head-coverings but clearly have more
freedom than in much of the Arab world, as I saw many driving and walking alone.
As a foreigner in this culture, I feel welcome by everyone I’ve
met thus far. It very well may be because I’m a white male, however it’s
evident that people are considerably nice to you when you show them respect and
kindness. I’ve made considerable effort to show interest in the people I’ve met,
acknowledging their names and being friendly. Nevertheless, Tunisia is a new culture
for me, the first place I’ve been where I am in the minority as a white man.
Some places in the world where I’ve been a minority white person, I’ve been met with unnecessary deference that makes me feel awkward. Some places the minority white is met with disdain or even disgust.
ReplyDeleteI prefer to connect with all people on level footing, but it doesn’t always work out that way. Keep being friendly.
What an awesome experience getting to see a country that 99% of Americans will likely never see. Embrace the experience, and I firmly believe, a friendly smile breaks down almost all cultural barriers.
ReplyDeleteHow wonderful you are! Other cultures will be initially wary because world communication gives rise to prejudgement of you and your culture. Represent yourself as you have and the person you are will allow the people you meet to learn whether their prejudgements apply.
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